Hospice of the Valley Lecture: Good Samaritan Hospital, 23 April 1986 by Fr. Vazken Movsesian Armenian Orthodox View: Dealing with Death (notes for a lecture) As you are aware, I am the pastor of the St. Andrew Armenian Apostolic Church in Cupertino. There are over 550 families in our parish with the majority living here in the Valley, some on the Peninsula and lower East Bay and a few families in the Monterey-Salinas area. It is the only Armenian institution in our area. Our parish, as well as most Armenian Churches is unusual in that the Church is not only a source of spirituality for the community but also a Cultural center. Church and Nation have always existed hand in hand for the Armenians. Armenians explore their Christian faith as well as keep in touch with their ethnic roots through the Church. This evening I wish to give you a general understanding of who the Armenian is and what role religion and culture play in the life of the Armenian. BRIEF HISTORY Armenians come from the Eastern part of what is currently called Turkey and present day Soviet Armenia. This is the land surrounding Mt. Ararat, the resting place of Noah's Arc and the area where the Garden of Eden was said to have existed. According to our tradition, two of Christ's Apostles, Thaddeus and Bartholomew brought Christianity to Armenia and established the first Armenian Churches during the mid 1st century. Hence, the name "Apostolic" is ascribed to our Church. It wasn't until the fourth century that Christianity was accepted by the Armenian State. In 301 Armenians became the first people to accept Christianity as a State Religion and the official Church of Armenia was established. This fact is mentioned with great pride by the Armenians. Christianity brought a new life to the Armenian people. Just about a 100 years later, the Armenian alphabet was created for the sole purpose of translating the Bible into Armenian. We have our own alphabet with 38 letters. Up to the beginning of this century 95% of all Armenians were found in the historic Armenia. Rather miraculously they were able to keep their Christian identity through the Church, despite the hostile environment in which it existed (most of the Middle East, being Muslim).--It is very interesting when one goes to the Middle East, you find Armenian Church built centuries ago, and still standing and in use. At the beginning of this century, the Armenians were the victim of the Turkish massacres. The Ottoman Empire, executed a plan to exterminate Armenians. 1.5 million Armenians were martyred for their beliefs. (Tomorrow is the 71st anniversary of these massacres--we will be commemorating the event along with the States most noted Armenian George Deukmejian in San Francisco) I have personally spoken to many survivors of the massacres who tell of how they could have been spared the torture had they betrayed their Christian beliefs. Most every Armenian living today, has some how or another been touched by the massacres. Following the massacres, many Armenians found their way to the Americas primarily to the Eastern States and the Fresno Area here in California. Many escaped to other countries in the Middle East. Wherever the Armenians went their Church went along with them. You find the Armenian Church at the center of every established Armenian community. Recently with the unrest in countries such as Lebanon, Iran and Turkey, Armenians have come to America. Today, outside of Armenia, the greatest concentration of Armenians is found in the Los Angeles Area. What does this all have to do with us, gathered together this evening? When you are dealing with an Armenian, you are likewise dealing with this 2000 year old tradition. Armenians are a proud people. They take a pride in being an Ancient Christian people and being able to survive despite the hardships. (The fact that 1.5 million were massacred only 70 years ago, after experiencing the darkest page in their history, they resurrected and are found in every corner of the world). Wherever they have gone, they have built and developed. For a relatively small minority, their accomplishments have been many and the average Armenian takes a sincere pride in belonging to this community. It is this pride which can get "in the way" many times and prevent them from accepting help from outside the family or community. They are not likely to take charity. They are hospitable, and if the person cannot repay you monetarily he will always want to even the score somehow. When offering help to an Armenian, you must recognize his/her pride and be willing to accept some favor in return--whether from the individual or from the family. It should also be mentioned, that those Armenians that have recently immigrated from countries where their is a system of socialized medicine, they understand and accept support from the State. They figure it to be the way of the system. However, in your case, where you are volunteers, this may trouble themÉas to how they will be able to repay you. FAMILY By "family" the Armenian includes extended family-- including grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins and to some degree the Armenian community. The family institution is ordained by God and is subject to the rules of the Church. (In the Middle East, until today, all family disputes are settled by the Church.) Where finance permit, the family is organized according to the traditional pattern with the father being the bread winner and the mother as a homemaker. When a terminal illness strikes a member of the family, it would regarded as a true shame, if the family could not care for it's own. Because of the demands of life in America, members of the family cannot always give time to the care of their father, mother, brother, sister, etc. and this of course disturbs the family. Organized care such as your hospice will be received only after all possibilities have been exhausted--beginning with the spouse, children, brothers, sisters and then the Armenian community. Another factor contributing to this feeling stems from the massacres. As I mentioned earlier, there are very few Armenians that have not been touched by the massacres earlier this century. We have all been brought up, reminded of the sacrifice that our parents, grandparents have made for us. In essence, the Armenians were massacred, yet they remained loyal to their Christian beliefs and ethnic identity. Because of the sacrifice made by our parents we live and thereby, the burden of responsibility is passed on to subsequent generations. Finally, I wish to speak of Resurrection. The idea of resurrection is deeply fixed in the Armenian Orthodox Christian. When dealing with the terminally ill, even though they fear death, there is a deep conviction to the idea of life after death, as I assume there is with any one else, Armenian or not, when confronted with death. However, for the Armenian the theme of resurrection has been accented throughout the years. Our history is one of resurrection. Suffering, dying yet continuing to live. The commitment the Armenian Christian has during the last days of his/her life is a sincere one. c. 1986 Fr. Vazken Movsesian address comments to dervaz@sain.org