Window Quarterly Vol. 2, No. 2, 1991 Copyright 1991 [Permission is granted to use, print, reproduce this article provided the following acknowledgment is given: From Window Quarterly 2, 2 (1991); ACRAG c. 1991. *** Mission in the Diaspora: Mary's Example by Vigen Guroian On his frequent journeys from Galilee to Judea and Jerusalem our Lord took special pleasure in visiting with friends. Among these friends of our Lord were Lazarus and his sisters Martha and Mary. They lived in the village of Bethany on the road from Jericho to Jerusalem. We have mention of this family in St. Luke's touching story of Mary and Martha. St. John also informs us in his gospel that at the close of Jesus' earthly ministry, our Lord revealed his great power over death itself by raising Lazarus; and visited these friends just before his triumphal entrance into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday. But for the moment, I would like to turn to Luke's story of Martha and Mary. It has been a story of enduring interest and speculation in Christian theology and spiritual reflection. While they were on their way Jesus came to a village where a woman named Martha made him welcome in her home. She had a sister, Mary, who seated herself at the Lord's feet and stayed there listening to his words. Now Martha was distracted by her many tasks, so she came to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to get on with the work by myself? Tell her to come and lend a hand.' But the Lord answered, 'Martha, Martha, you are fretting and fussing about so many things; but one thing is necessary. The part that Mary has chosen is best; and it shall not be taken away from her."(Luke 10:38-42) This domestic scene captures how any one of us might respond when visited by a guest of great importance. Martha, caught up with preparing for the arrival of Jesus and his disciples, hurries to tidy the house and prepare dinner. "Martha made him welcome in her home. . . . Now Martha was distracted by her many tasks." Meanwhile, Jesus seated himself and began to teach. We do not have difficulty imagining the scene. Mary and all the other guests have gathered around Jesus breathing in his every word. Martha is left by herself to finish setting the table. In the midst of her toil, she grows increasingly angry at her sister Mary who she thinks is avoiding her responsibilities. Thus Martha bursts out, "Master, do you not care that my sister has left me alone to do all the work? Tell her to get up and attend to her tasks." But Jesus refuses to reprimand Mary. He will not command her to help Martha. Instead, he says, "Martha, dear Martha, there is no need to worry and become aggravated. Such lavish preparation is not necessary. Something simple will be enough. Your sister, Mary, has chosen the best repast of all. Would you take it from her? I will not do such a thing." Jesus recognized Martha's good intentions. It is right to attend to the physical needs of others, to feed and comfort the weary traveler, to heal the sick, and care for the less fortunate. The story of Martha and Mary immediately follows the parable of the Good Samaritan in the Gospel of St. Luke. When viewed in light of that parable, Martha's behavior cannot simply be condemned. She acts consistently with the Samaritan story's exhortation to practice charity. Works of charity belong to the kingdom of God. Jesus is the autobasileia, the kingdom in Person. Martha's actions fall short of the demands of the moment only because she forgets that the physical preparations for the celebration of God's kingdom are of secondary not primary importance. For Armenians there is a larger lesson in this story. It reminds us that there is such a thing as being too concerned with physical well-being and political survival. Our Lord and his saints did not value physical and political survival so highly. The vicissitudes and needs of this life all too easily can distract us from the 'one thing [that] is necessary." What a curse the Turk set upon Armenians when he persuaded them through all the years of the Ottoman captivity and then the massacres and genocide of 1915 to think in obsessively survivalistic terms. There is little in this sort of temperament or behavior which belongs to the kingdom of God. "For whoever would save his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." (Matt. 16:25) Jesus' answer to Martha is humorous. He makes a pun. But this is a play on words which instructs and does not merely entertain. "Mary," says Jesus, "has chosen the right portion, the best part of the feast." He is referring in metaphor, not to the food which fills our stomachs, but to the food which is the word of God, the spiritual bread of eternal life. Mary has chosen to listen to Jesus. She understands that without this spiritual food salvation is not possible. The irony of Armenian life which the story of Martha and Mary exposes is painful to admit. The irony is that while our enemies nearly starve us to death by denying the people earthly bread, Armenians themselves do much worse by denying themselves the heavenly breadPMary's good portion. As I think back upon my childhood, I am overwhelmed with memories of grandmothers and great aunts placing in front of me more food than I could ever eat - fruit and nuts, bread and cheese and delicious sweet pastries and candies. I still can hear them saying to me: "Anoti es. Ger!" These beloved women by their attention to my small needs were feeding vicariously all those whom they saw go hungry during the years of great tribulation at the hands of the Turk. I am struck by the pathos of our shared lives. While I will remain forever grateful for the love and affection given to me as a child and do not blame those beloved women for trying to make my every visit and meal a feast - as Jesus did not blame Martha, still I wonder whether the behavior of these mothers, excusable in view of their own past, does not also stand as a symbol of our utter distraction and neglect of the "one thing that is necessary." For in the thirty years since my childhood, nearly all of my generation, which carries with it such memories of grandmothers and great aunts, has wandered from the Armenian Church. The ChurchPso obsessed with its own survival and Armenian identity, having been so attentive to provisions of earthly breadPhas starved its people of the Word of God. It does not matter which parish one visits of the Diocese or the Prelacy. All are marked by the conspicuous absence of the second and third generations and now their children. The subsequent immigrations from the Middle East and Armenia belie the fact that this is indeed a critical and dangerous moment for the Armenian Church in America. The pews occupied by recent immigrants are also empty pews, emptied of the second and the third generations and their children. Whenever I visit an Armenian parish there is the haunting reminder of the children who left and never returned because their church lacked the courage and vision to change and transmit the tradition in the idiom of the new culture into which it was cast. My former teacher, the late Will Herberg, himself a Jew, dedicated his classic study of religion and ethnicity in America, Protestant, Catholic, Jew , with these words: To the Third Generation upon whose return so much of the future of religion in America depends. Well, the third generation has not returned to the Armenian Church. And the Church is in serious dilemma, despite its habitual denials. What a loss it is. For in my generation and its progeny there is a near complete recovery from the genocide of 1915. In these second, third and even fourth generations the dreams of the fathers and mothers have come true. Among them are doctors, musicians, scientists, business leaders, lawyers and educators who should have become the lay leaders of the Armenian Church. But they are not present. Their absence is the terrible measure of how we have misdirected our energies and avoided attending to the "one thing necessary." Martha the Armenian Church has been. We have kept the feasts, we have repeated the ancient rituals, and we have celebrated the nation's past glory. But without Mary what is Martha? Without the living word of God vibrating in our heads, rushing in our veins, pounding in our hearts, the Church is a museum, a repository of heavenly artifacts and ancient rituals displayed on feast days whose meaning has all but been forgotten by the participants. This a gross caricature of what a national church, such as the Armenian Church, was in its "natural" culture, but can no longer be in America. There must be a renewal of mission. Sadly, instead of facing the challenge and the new realities of the diaspora, Armenians have persisted in viewing their church as the place in which is made present, not the kingdom of God, but the old world long since disappeared, which although it can be fantastically projected into the future as a dream or hope, is alien to the world in which God has placed them to live out their real lives. No wonder that for my generation and now their children the Armenian Church is a strange place, irrelevant to their lives. Let us return to Mary for a moment. Mary's devotion was not a private one. Her yearning was for the kingdom of God and she knew that the kingdom had been made present in Jesus of Nazareth whom she could call friend as well as Lord. Six days before the Passover festival, Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus lived whom he had raised from the dead. There a supper was given in his honor, at which Martha served, and Lazarus sat among the guests with Jesus. Then Mary brought a pound of very costly perfume, pure oil of nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped them with her hair, till the house was filled with the fragrance. At this, Judas Iscariot, a disciple of his - the one who was about to betray him - said, "Why was this perfume not sold for thirty pounds and given to the poor?" he said this, not out of any care for the poor, but because he was a thief; he used to pilfer the money put into the common purse, which was his charge. "Leave her alone!" said Jesus. "Let her keep it till the day when she prepares for my burial; for you have the poor among you always, but you will not always have me." (John 12: 1-8 ) Martha served a feast on that fateful occasion before Jesus' passion. And so should we when the Lord is with us, when the kingdom is present among us. Yet Mary poured out the fragrant oil of her heart's desire. "And the house was filled with the fragrance," says St. John, the fragrance of Mary's abiding witness to the truth which gives us life and sets us free. We must pay serious attention to Mary's example at this critical moment in the history of our church and the Armenian people. Yet Mary's example is not the only model to which we can turn. We should be reminded of other women whom our church venerates and upon whom it bestows the glorious title of saint. I am reminded of the witness of Hripseme and Gayne, of Ashken, and of Nooneh and Maneh. They were Mary's co-workers. They were not content to educate themselves in the faith only, but sacrificed their lives to pass on the holy tradition of the apostles to family, nation and all who would accept the word of God into their hearts. MARY AND MISSION Mary's example is not merely an example for women, though we have gotten used to portraying it that way. Mary is an example for all who feel called by Christ and know him as their friend. Mary was a visionary. She recognized that this friend was also the Lord and Messiah. She anticipated the awful sacrifice he would make for her. And she was willing to sacrifice for his sake. Those who labor in the Lord's vineyard must also be visionaries. They must look into the future with courage and truthfulness and the willingness to sacrifice. I will not avert my own eyes for the sake of false comfort, from the terrible failure of the Church to be a mission to the world. It has forsaken my generation. The Lord will judge the leaders who have failed. The Lord will hold all of us accountable for this. For we have not loved the Lord enough as Mary did. Do we dare sacrifice future generations on the altar of our extreme ethnocentricism, having turned the Church into a servant of nationalism rather than a community of Christian discipleship? In America the Armenian Church must no longer encourage Armenians to hide in ethnic ghettos making itself the house into which they retreat. Such retreat provides only the illusion of protection against the massive assimilative forces of a pluralistic society. The answer is not total Americanization of the Church. But it does mean that Armenians must risk their identity in order to preserve and renew it. For too long the Holy Spirit has been closed out of our churches, barred from entering by closed doors and stained glass windows. But we must pull open the windows, unbar and open the doors, and let the Spirit in to blow where it wills (John 2: 7-8). Only the Spirit will set us free and give us the courage and vision to discern ways of change and reform. We must engage the American order creatively and translate our church's universal truth and ethnic uniqueness into an idiom suited to future generations. How much sense can the Armenian Church's relentless efforts to link the Armenian nation (inevitably interpreted politically by its people) with the Christian faith make to third and fourth generation Armenian-Americans? Furthermore, the Christian nation which St. Gregory the Illuminator founded was strangled by the Ottoman yoke and crucified and put to death finally by the Young Turks. In Soviet Armenia the Communists made certain the Christian nation would not revive. The resurrection of the Armenian Church in the diaspora is in the form of a spiritual body. This will be so in Armenia, as well, as autonomous secular institutions of national life take primary responsibility for the nation. The compulsive reiteration of the fact that Armenia was the first Christian nation becomes the pathetic testimony that Armenians have not yet come to terms with what actually happened in 1915 and subsequently in Soviet Armenia. In spite of the conscientious commemoration of the slaughter of the two million we do not yet believe that with their deaths the old Armenian world died. As the disciples who after the crucifixion could not believe that their leader was killed and when encountered by Jesus in his resurrected, glorified body did not recognize him, Armenians also have not been able to recognize the Armenian Church in its resurrected body. The Church's long isolation from the other Christian churches is over. The era of the millet ended seventy years ago. The era of Soviet captivity is ending. The old survivalism which persists as a habit especially within the Church must no longer be mistaken for the "gospel" of Jesus Christ. Our old ways of instructing the young must change. Instruction in the Armenian language and the transmission of historical information which fails to make connections with the living reality of this culture and its "faiths" is not sufficient to equip them for the kind of spiritual combat they will have to do in a society which is not Armenian. A society in which nearly all the supports of Christian faith have crumbled. We must not be content with instilling in the young a mere loyalty to the Church as a cultural institution. Rather an education in Christian life as discipleship, witness, and service is required. The young must be trained not merely to be custodians of ancient and venerable institutions, but truly the faithful in Christ called to be the salt of the earth. There is a need for a prophetic laity in the Armenian Church, like the monastics of a bygone era, men and women alike, who will courageously bring attention to our shortcomings and call us back to our faith. The old monastic system has been utterly clericized and limited to a training ground for hierarchs and administrators. Administrators almost by definition find the prophetic spirit dangerous, not useful or necessary. A prophetic laity in the ancient monastic spirit of renewal and reform, however, will come about only if we pursue the sort of Christian instruction which I just described. Furthermore, believers everywhere must join together in prayer and study of scripture and pursue together projects of service. Like Mary, we must sit attentively at Christ's feet and listen to the living Word of God. But after we listen, we have a right and a duty to serve. It is time that the ancient order of deaconess be restored in our Church. And let us not quibble over whether such women must be celibate or live in monastic communities. That is a tactic of the fearful and those who refuse to permit the Church to adjust to the times. The church historian Jarislov Pelikan has written: "Tradition is the living faith of the dead. Traditionalism is the dead faith of living." The Armenian Church is afflicted by the latter. Real tradition is liberating , not confining. Over the centuries the diaconate has been reduced to a narrowly defined liturgical function. It is time the diaconate be returned to its intended role of total service to the community. And that must include our mothers, sisters, wives and daughters. Our church is in desperate need of regaining its identity as mission. Though we are not told so, we must believe that Mary not only listened to the words of the Lord, but also preached them. I sometimes think the Armenian Church forgot the meaning of the words mission and discipleship somewhere between the fourth and twelfth century. An evangelization of the people must begin anew - here in America and now in Armenia. We here must create a model that can be appropriated with adjustments in Armenia. Preparing feasts for the lost sheep to attend is not sufficient. Jesus went to the lost sheep. He did not wait for them to come to him. If the liturgy does not extend beyond the four walls of the sanctuary then it is an abomination. "I will praise the Lord at all times. Let His praise be always on my tongue." This is what the deacon chants after the benediction in the Divine Liturgy. A massive effort is required to recover and return all those Armenians whom the Church counts on its roles, but who are not really present. A massive effort is required in Armenia to evangelize a people separated from the Lord by seventy years of state enforced atheism. In his second letter to the Thessalonians, the Apostle Paul exhorted: "So then brethren, stand firm and hold to the traditions which you were taught by us, either by word of mouth or by letter" (2 Thess. 2: 15 ). We are in the habit of calling our church the Armenian Apostolic Church. We call it that not just because in the distant past our ancestors were evangelized by Thaddeus and Batholemew or because our bishops claim what is called apostolic succession. Apostolic is derived from the Greek apostolos, meaning one sent forth who is especially commissioned to act in behalf of the one who sent him. We are the ones sent. He who sent us is the very Son of God. He has commanded us to "go . . . and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you" (Matt. 19-20 ). In this century, Armenians have been scattered to the four corners of the earth. Had we the choice we might have picked another fate. Nevertheless, this was not a choice to be made by us. But it remains for us to decide whether or not we will make of our situation a holy service to the Lord and in God's good time earn, as our forefathers and mothers did, the appellation apostolic. *** =================================================== _ _ _ _ _ |_| ___ _| | ___ _ _ _ | | | | | | _ / _ \ / _ | / _ \ | | | | | | | |_| |_| || |_ | | | || |_| || |_| || |_| |_| | \_________/\___||_| |_| \___/ \___/ \_________/ View Of The Armenian Church ===================================================